The 4 Lessons To Finding Fresh Confidence

change+transition confidence fashion hue and style philosophy style Jul 12, 2022

"Nothing new happens without fresh confidence." ~ 𝕄ℂ𝔾

Ok, but what does that mean? First, it means you'll need to be open to change. It means embracing what has shifted in your life. It means welcoming new resilience. It means developing a new, deeper meaning to expressing yourself for what you want to leave behind you as your legacy.

You may be in a spot where you want to change but feel like you're floundering over which way to go; do I leave this job, do I start another, do I pivot my business or do something completely different - all of these are questions of a mind and heart begging for fresh confidence.

Fresh confidence comes from self-reflecting, awareness and learning lessons of 4 types:

  • self-worth: your capacity to know your value and honor your uniqueness,
  • courage: your ability to summon bravery in the face of fear,
  • compassion: your ability to care for yourself first then others, and
  • discipline: your ability to do what you know needs to be done for the great good (whether you feel like it at the moment or not).

These lessons come from what's happening for you, around you, and in your life (instead of what's happening to you).

It's hard to see your life from a whole perspective without these four I call the Whispered Lessons, detailed in π™Žπ™π™€π™¬ 𝙐π™₯ π˜Ύπ™€π™£π™›π™žπ™™π™šπ™£π™© which can leave you paralyzed in that floundering feeling I shared.

But once you define which lesson you are actively learning with your change and transition, you will start redefining the whole reason you need to use your days with purpose. You'll also find it uncovers new motivation to #getupanddressed.

Believe it or not, this Hue and Style® Pure White from my palette gave me a jolt in redefining what I know I need next as I navigate a few of my own transitions in these last few months.

I know you may not believe how linked the colors, garments and accessories of self-expression you wear are to your ability to summon the courage to move through these whispered lessons is a real thing - but I assure you - after decades of helping women with their hue and style and mindset to move forward, they are more than linked, they are entirely inter-connected!

Color can help you do that, and seeing yourself in the mirror as a woman ready to make a clear, authentic contribution while learning life lessons does it too.

Why just learn to style an outfit when you can learn to style your life?